40 Must-Know Wedding Terms Every Couple Should Know

Ceremony & Traditions

  1. Aisle Runner – A decorative strip (fabric or synthetic) placed along the aisle for the wedding procession.

  2. Processional & Recessional – The order in which the wedding party and couple enter and exit the ceremony.

  3. Unity Ceremony – A symbolic act (e.g., lighting a candle, pouring sand) representing the couple’s union.

  4. Vow Exchange – The moment when couples share their promises during the ceremony.

  5. First Look – A private moment where the couple sees each other before the ceremony.

  6. Receiving Line – A formal way for the couple to greet and thank guests after the ceremony.

  7. Officiant – The person who legally performs and leads the wedding ceremony.

  8. Marriage License vs. Marriage Certificate – A license allows a couple to marry; a certificate proves the marriage happened.

  9. Toss Bouquet – A smaller bouquet designed for the bouquet toss tradition.

  10. Golden Hour – The period right before sunset, known for stunning photography lighting.

Wedding Party & Attire

  1. Bridal Party vs. Wedding Party – The bridal party includes bridesmaids, while the wedding party includes everyone (bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc.).

  2. Maid of Honor vs. Matron of Honor – The Maid of Honor is unmarried; the Matron of Honor is married.

  3. Boutonnière – A small floral arrangement worn by the groom, groomsmen, or other important guests.

  4. Corsage – A floral arrangement typically worn by mothers and grandmothers.

  5. Garter Toss – A tradition where the groom removes and tosses the bride’s garter.

  6. Dress Code (Black Tie, Semi-Formal, Cocktail, Casual) – Different levels of attire expectations for guests.

  • Black Tie – Requires tuxedos and floor-length gowns.

  • Formal – Suits and elegant dresses are appropriate.

  • Cocktail – Men wear suits; women opt for knee-length dresses.

  • Semi-Formal – Dress pants, button-down shirts, and stylish dresses.

  • Casual – Sundresses, slacks, and relaxed attire, ideal for outdoor weddings.

Reception & Venue Logistics

  1. Cocktail Hour – The period between the ceremony and reception where drinks and appetizers are served.

  2. Grand Entrance – The formal introduction of the couple and wedding party at the reception.

  3. Head Table vs. Sweetheart Table – The head table seats the couple and wedding party, while the sweetheart table is just for the couple.

  4. Escort Cards vs. Place Cards – Escort cards direct guests to their table; place cards designate specific seats.

  5. Floor Plan – A layout of the event space showing where tables, chairs, and dance floors will be placed.

  6. Tablescape – The decorative arrangement of a table setting, including florals, linens, and dinnerware.

  7. Uplighting – Lighting placed at ground level to create a dramatic ambiance.

  8. Corkage Fee – A venue charge for bringing your own alcohol.

  9. Service Charge vs. Gratuity – A service charge is a mandatory fee; gratuity is optional but expected for excellent service.

  10. Open Bar vs. Cash Bar vs. Limited Bar – Different ways to handle alcoholic drinks at a wedding.

  • Open Bar – The couple covers all drink costs for guests.

  • Cash Bar – Guests pay for their own drinks.

  • Limited Bar – Select drinks (beer, wine, or signature cocktails) are covered, while guests pay for extras.

Vendors & Planning Terms

  1. Day-of Coordinator vs. Wedding Planner vs. Venue Coordinator – Different roles in wedding management; a planner oversees everything, a venue coordinator handles venue logistics, and a day-of coordinator ensures smooth execution on the wedding day.

  2. Save-the-Dates vs. Invitations vs. RSVP Cards – Save-the-dates inform guests early; invitations are formal requests to attend; RSVP cards collect guest responses.

  3. Wedding Favors – Small gifts given to guests as a thank-you.

  4. Calligraphy vs. Digital Printing – Different styles of invitation lettering. Calligraphy is hand-written, digital printing is computer-designed and printed.

  5. High-Touch vs. All-Inclusive Venue – High-touch means customized services; all-inclusive provides pre-packaged services.

  6. Rain Plan/Backup Plan – The venue’s contingency plan for bad weather.

  7. Guest Count vs. Guaranteed Guest Count – The guest count is an estimate; the guaranteed count is the final number given to vendors.

Entertainment & Extra Elements

  1. Live Band vs. DJ – A live band provides music with instruments, while a DJ plays recorded music.

  2. Grand Exit (Send-Off) – The couple’s farewell moment, often featuring sparklers, confetti, or bubbles.

  3. Signature Cocktails – Custom drinks named after the couple or something meaningful.

  4. Photo Booth vs. Live Painter – A photo booth provides instant pictures for guests; a live painter creates a custom painting of the wedding scene.

  5. Guestbook Alternatives – Creative options beyond a traditional book, like a signed photo or audio guestbook.

  6. First Dance vs. Parent Dances – The first dance is for the couple, while parent dances involve a dance with parents.

  7. After-Party – A late-night celebration following the reception, often at another location.